Four types of Love...
1.Family wala Love
2.Friend wala Love
3.Flirt wala Love
4.Ishq wala Love
1.Family wala Love:
Yeh wo love hai jo humay apny family members like Mother , father , sister, brother, kids k sath hota hai. Yeh love kia nahi jata khud ho jata hai. Yeh love natural hota hai. Isme kisi ki beauty , habbits , nature etc yeh chezien nahi dekhi jati. Yeh love day one se lay kar last day tak rehta hai. Yeh apki zindgi ka sabse pehly wala love hota hai.
2.Friend wala Love:
Yeh love wo hai jo friends k sath kia jata hai is main boht sincerity hoti hai. Aur yeh love hota nahi hai balky kia jata haii. zroori nahi k yeh love kisi aik k sath hi ho. Aur Is main gender b matter nahi karta. Isme apko us friend k sath rehna us k sath batien share karna boht acha lagta hai.. Aur yeh aik wakat main maximum 3 logo se kia jaa sakta hai. Mostly yeh love specific time k liay hota hai. Aur is main limitations b hoti hain..But for a specific time yeh love sabse zyada beautiful hota hai.
3.Flirt wala Love:
Yeh love time pass k liay hota hai aur zroori nahi k isme dono mature hon ..isme hmesha kisi aik ka nuksan hota hai.. yeh b opposite gender se kia jata hai.. Isme aik dusry se boht pyar bharii batien ki jati hain aik dusry ki tareefien ki jati hain but real main sab fake hota hai .. dono main se koi aik serius hota hai aur aik flirt kar raha hota hai. aur mostly girls is type k love k victims bnti hain aur phir unke paas ronay k ilawa kuch nahi hota. coz most of the times aysa hota hai k wo isme apni sarii limits cross kar chuki hoti hain..
4.Ishq wala Love:
Yeh love maturity k baad se start hota hai aur yeh opposite gender k sath hota hai.. somtimes yeh apko ho jata hai somtimes ap karty ho. Yeh love aik time main kisi aik k sath hi kia jaa sakta hai .. agr aik se zyada hai to yeh ishq wala love nahi hota.. Isme apko uski har chez aur baat achi lagti hai ap usko boht importance detay ho.. isme sencirty hoti hai.. aur isme shadi ka hona lazmi hota hai.. Friend wala love somtimes ishq wala Love main b convert ho sakta hai.. Aur yeh love b till death rehta hai.
Yeh 4 types mene khud se likhi hain mene kahen se copy paste nahi kia ... yeh pure meri thinking and feelings hain.. ap is se agree ya disagree kar sakty ho but muj par apni opinion impose nahi kar sakty..
In my point of you flirt wala love chor kar baki teeno love boht beautiful hain ... kuch ny sirf family wala love kia hota hai, kuch ne sirf friend wala , kuch ne flirit wala aur kuch ne ishq wala.. in my point of view wo lucky hota hai jisay family wala love aur friend wala love milta hai... Aur wo boht lucky hota hai jisay family , friend and ishq wala love milta hai..
I wish k ap sab ko at least family aur friend wala love zroor milay.. :)Aur agr sath sath ishq wala love b mil jaye to kya baat hai je apki... ;)
Monday, December 24, 2012
Sunday, December 23, 2012
21-12-2012 For Me
21-12-2012 Maya calender ka last din. Maya logo k mutabik is din sab tabah bardad ho jana tha. Aur qayamat aa jani the... Lakien Hum Muslims ka yeh iman aur yakeen tha aur hai b k aysa kuch nahii hona tha aur kuch b nahi hoa 21-12-2012 guzar gya.
Main apne baray main thora btana chahta hon k is din mere sath kya hoa..
4 incidents in a day aur har aik ka end acha hi hoga but mujhe yakeen nahiii aa rha tha k mere sath aysa kyun ho rha hai mera mind kaha ja raha tha.. Khair ab main ap ko sunata hn kya kya hoa mere sath in din jo pehle kabi b nahi hoa tha. :P
Incident no.1:Mene bank main 3000 rupies ka bill pay karna tha , mene 5000 rupies ka note dia usne bill ki recipte mujhe de di aur jab mene 2000 rupies return karne ko kaha to he asked k kya mene usay 5000 ka note dia tha...? mene kaha haan but he was saying k usne note dekha hi nahi and rakh lia uska mind kaheen aur gya tha...mene boht kaha k janab mene 5000 ka note dia hai but wo maan nahi raha tha. Usne kaha k ap aysa karo apna contact no. de jao main sham ko jab banlace karun ga to agr 2000 zyada show hoa to apko call karun ga aa k le jana.. Mujhe boht Gusssa aa raha tha k yeh kya chawal hai.. khair main gussay main usay kafi batien suna k bahr nikal gya bank main se....ayse mere sath pehle kabi b nahi hoa tha..i was very sad :-(
Incident no.2:Main fotocopy shop par gya bhai k id card ki copies karani then,.. wahan kisi aur ne b usi wakat apna card dia copy karne ko.. usne galti se kisi aur ki copies aur card mujhe de dia mene jaldi main sirf copies dekhien wo mere bhai ki nahi then mene usay kaha k yeh copies meri nahi usay change kar k de daien but mene id card dekha hi nahi tha k wo b bhai ka tha k kisi aur ka tha. Mene la k bhai ko de dien copies nd card. usne ayse hi wallet main rakh lia. Aik hour baad bhai ne wallet nikala aur dekha k card to uska hi nahi yeh kisi aur ka haii.. Usny gussay main mujhe 2 ,4 sunaien aur kaha k yeh kis ka card le aye ho chalo jao wapis fotocopy walay k pas and mera id card le kar ao jese marzii... i was very sad :-(
Incident no.3: Main aik kaam se Gujranwala gya wahan kuch information chahiyen the kisi ko mere baray main. Wahan aik form fill karne k liay mene usay apna id card dia aur wo bnda wahan se info le k form fill karne laga. usne form fill kar lia aur mujhe b de dia aik form and main le k wapis aa gya. Main us bandy se pehli dafa mila tha. wo mujhe nahi janta tha main b nahi janta tha. aik kaam k silsilay main us se milny gaya tha sirf 10mnt betha uske pas main. jab wapis a gya to 2 hour k baad mene apna wallet nikala aur dekha k mere id card nahi hai wahan. ufff mujhe yaad aaya k mera card to mene us bandy se wapis hi nahii liay. pata nahi abi wo bnda mujhe wahan milay ga b k nahi mera id card kahan gya hoga . Maine socha ab wapis chalta hn us k pas ..i was very sad :-(
Incident no.4:Main bike par city ja raha tha. janay se pehle mene 200 rupies jaket ki pocket main rakh liay k chalo iska petrol dalwa loon ga. ab main jab 30mnt baad aik petrol pump par pohancha to dekha k jaket main paisy nahi hain. maine kitni dafa pockets main dekha but paisy nahi mil rahay tha main boht heran tha coz mene paisy khud jecket ki pocket main rakhay thay..yeh mere sath 4th indicent tha aaj.. samj se bahr tha k aysa kyun ho rha hai mere sath main itna lost minded kese hogya aaj.. i was very sad :-(
Incident no. 1 End : Raat 6bje bank se us bnday ka phone a gya aur usne kaha k ap aa k 2000 rupies le jaien .. usne kaha wakai uski galti the abi balnce kia hai to 2000 zyada show ho rha hai.. wo boht sorry kar raha tha but chalo acha hogya nd main ja k 2000 rupies le ayaa . i was very happy :-)
Incident no. 2 End : Main us fotocopy walay k pas gya aur usay kaha k yeh card mere bhai k nahi hai tumne galti se koi aur de dia hai.. usne mujhe dekhty hi shukar ada kia coz jiska card main le gya tha wo last 1 hour se wahan fotocopy walay k pas preshani ki halat main betha tha. mene card exchange kia aur wapis aa k bhai ko de dia card . i was very happy :-)
Incident no.3 End : Main 2 hour baad wapis gya to wo bnda wahan hi betha tha even us wakat jummay ka time tha nd mujhe yehi tha k wo nhn hoga wahan but wo wahan mil gya . mene usay card ka pucha to usny kaha haan tum yahan hi bhool gye thay usne card de dia. i waz very happy :-)
Incident no. 4 End : Maine kitni dafa pockets ko check kia but paisy nahi mil rahay tha aik dm se mujhe jecket ki front wali pocket yad i to dekha pasiy us main thay aur har dafa main wo pocket check karna bhool jata tha dont know why. but at the end pasiy b mil gye . i was very happy :-)
21-12-2012 ki raaat ko jab yeh saray incidents ho chukhy thay aur unka end b acha ho chukha tha to i was thinking k yeh life wakai aysiii haii somtimes hum sad hoty hain and somtimes happy aur most of the time aysa kisi aik chez ki waja se hi hota hai .. i mean jiski waja se sad hoty hain usi par baad main happy ho jatay hain. So hamay always Allah ka shukar adaa karna chahiye aur sabar se kaam lena chahiye wo aap ko zroor wo kuch wapis kar de gya jo ap samjty ho k ap se lost hogya hai. Wo kisi k sath zyadti ya nainsafii nahii karta. Jo jis kaam k liay mehnat karta hai wo uske liay usi kaam main asaaniyan peda kar deta hai.
Kuch log jinka imaan mazboot nahi tha ya jo iman walay nahi thay wo to is din se boht dary hoay thay But yeh din mere liay to boht acha raha kyuke is din mene jo khoya wo mujhe wapis b mil gya kyunke mene usay paany ki koshish jo ki the to Allah to kisi k sath nainsafi nahi na karta :-)
Allah hum sab ka iman mazboot kary aur apny deen par chalne ki tofeeeq ata kary Ameen :)
Main apne baray main thora btana chahta hon k is din mere sath kya hoa..
4 incidents in a day aur har aik ka end acha hi hoga but mujhe yakeen nahiii aa rha tha k mere sath aysa kyun ho rha hai mera mind kaha ja raha tha.. Khair ab main ap ko sunata hn kya kya hoa mere sath in din jo pehle kabi b nahi hoa tha. :P
Incident no.1:Mene bank main 3000 rupies ka bill pay karna tha , mene 5000 rupies ka note dia usne bill ki recipte mujhe de di aur jab mene 2000 rupies return karne ko kaha to he asked k kya mene usay 5000 ka note dia tha...? mene kaha haan but he was saying k usne note dekha hi nahi and rakh lia uska mind kaheen aur gya tha...mene boht kaha k janab mene 5000 ka note dia hai but wo maan nahi raha tha. Usne kaha k ap aysa karo apna contact no. de jao main sham ko jab banlace karun ga to agr 2000 zyada show hoa to apko call karun ga aa k le jana.. Mujhe boht Gusssa aa raha tha k yeh kya chawal hai.. khair main gussay main usay kafi batien suna k bahr nikal gya bank main se....ayse mere sath pehle kabi b nahi hoa tha..i was very sad :-(
Incident no.2:Main fotocopy shop par gya bhai k id card ki copies karani then,.. wahan kisi aur ne b usi wakat apna card dia copy karne ko.. usne galti se kisi aur ki copies aur card mujhe de dia mene jaldi main sirf copies dekhien wo mere bhai ki nahi then mene usay kaha k yeh copies meri nahi usay change kar k de daien but mene id card dekha hi nahi tha k wo b bhai ka tha k kisi aur ka tha. Mene la k bhai ko de dien copies nd card. usne ayse hi wallet main rakh lia. Aik hour baad bhai ne wallet nikala aur dekha k card to uska hi nahi yeh kisi aur ka haii.. Usny gussay main mujhe 2 ,4 sunaien aur kaha k yeh kis ka card le aye ho chalo jao wapis fotocopy walay k pas and mera id card le kar ao jese marzii... i was very sad :-(
Incident no.3: Main aik kaam se Gujranwala gya wahan kuch information chahiyen the kisi ko mere baray main. Wahan aik form fill karne k liay mene usay apna id card dia aur wo bnda wahan se info le k form fill karne laga. usne form fill kar lia aur mujhe b de dia aik form and main le k wapis aa gya. Main us bandy se pehli dafa mila tha. wo mujhe nahi janta tha main b nahi janta tha. aik kaam k silsilay main us se milny gaya tha sirf 10mnt betha uske pas main. jab wapis a gya to 2 hour k baad mene apna wallet nikala aur dekha k mere id card nahi hai wahan. ufff mujhe yaad aaya k mera card to mene us bandy se wapis hi nahii liay. pata nahi abi wo bnda mujhe wahan milay ga b k nahi mera id card kahan gya hoga . Maine socha ab wapis chalta hn us k pas ..i was very sad :-(
Incident no.4:Main bike par city ja raha tha. janay se pehle mene 200 rupies jaket ki pocket main rakh liay k chalo iska petrol dalwa loon ga. ab main jab 30mnt baad aik petrol pump par pohancha to dekha k jaket main paisy nahi hain. maine kitni dafa pockets main dekha but paisy nahi mil rahay tha main boht heran tha coz mene paisy khud jecket ki pocket main rakhay thay..yeh mere sath 4th indicent tha aaj.. samj se bahr tha k aysa kyun ho rha hai mere sath main itna lost minded kese hogya aaj.. i was very sad :-(
Incident no. 1 End : Raat 6bje bank se us bnday ka phone a gya aur usne kaha k ap aa k 2000 rupies le jaien .. usne kaha wakai uski galti the abi balnce kia hai to 2000 zyada show ho rha hai.. wo boht sorry kar raha tha but chalo acha hogya nd main ja k 2000 rupies le ayaa . i was very happy :-)
Incident no. 2 End : Main us fotocopy walay k pas gya aur usay kaha k yeh card mere bhai k nahi hai tumne galti se koi aur de dia hai.. usne mujhe dekhty hi shukar ada kia coz jiska card main le gya tha wo last 1 hour se wahan fotocopy walay k pas preshani ki halat main betha tha. mene card exchange kia aur wapis aa k bhai ko de dia card . i was very happy :-)
Incident no.3 End : Main 2 hour baad wapis gya to wo bnda wahan hi betha tha even us wakat jummay ka time tha nd mujhe yehi tha k wo nhn hoga wahan but wo wahan mil gya . mene usay card ka pucha to usny kaha haan tum yahan hi bhool gye thay usne card de dia. i waz very happy :-)
Incident no. 4 End : Maine kitni dafa pockets ko check kia but paisy nahi mil rahay tha aik dm se mujhe jecket ki front wali pocket yad i to dekha pasiy us main thay aur har dafa main wo pocket check karna bhool jata tha dont know why. but at the end pasiy b mil gye . i was very happy :-)
21-12-2012 ki raaat ko jab yeh saray incidents ho chukhy thay aur unka end b acha ho chukha tha to i was thinking k yeh life wakai aysiii haii somtimes hum sad hoty hain and somtimes happy aur most of the time aysa kisi aik chez ki waja se hi hota hai .. i mean jiski waja se sad hoty hain usi par baad main happy ho jatay hain. So hamay always Allah ka shukar adaa karna chahiye aur sabar se kaam lena chahiye wo aap ko zroor wo kuch wapis kar de gya jo ap samjty ho k ap se lost hogya hai. Wo kisi k sath zyadti ya nainsafii nahii karta. Jo jis kaam k liay mehnat karta hai wo uske liay usi kaam main asaaniyan peda kar deta hai.
Kuch log jinka imaan mazboot nahi tha ya jo iman walay nahi thay wo to is din se boht dary hoay thay But yeh din mere liay to boht acha raha kyuke is din mene jo khoya wo mujhe wapis b mil gya kyunke mene usay paany ki koshish jo ki the to Allah to kisi k sath nainsafi nahi na karta :-)
Allah hum sab ka iman mazboot kary aur apny deen par chalne ki tofeeeq ata kary Ameen :)
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